(First of all, this was not my original idea. It came from my friend Laura who lives here and is responsible for a dorm of 5-10 year old boys. You can check out her blog at http://clearlyliving.blogspot.com . Thank you for your creativity Laura!)
Purity
That is the topic we are about to cover in discipleship with the older girls.
Being pure in God, living lives to glorify the Lord, becoming pure through His cleansing us and molding us into His likeness.
To start off our topic, Rachel and I decided to have a wedding, and clear up a common misconception here, that once you have kids together, you are considered husband and wife. Never mind the marriage, the covenant before God.
In Mozambique, in order to get married, most couples of many expenses to consider. The groom will have to pay the "Lobola" (the bridal price, set by the Father of the bride). This could include several crates of refrescos (pop/soda), money, cows or goats, and capalanas (the traditional fabric here, used as wrap skirts, baby slings, blankets, and many other uses). They will also have to afford a wedding, and a celebration feast. The feast will not just be for the wedding guests, but any neighbors or people that want to come could show up and must be fed! Because of lack of money, often people just live together, sometimes for many, many years, but never make the important commitment of getting married.
We had a wedding to explain what marriage is, and the significance of different parts of the wedding.
Please join us for the wedding ceremony!...
Fiona and Dito were our pretend Bride and Groom!
They did a fantastic job. Fiona borrowed a real wedding dress, and Dito wore a tie and dress shoes!
Some of the wedding guests (i.e. the girl's discipleship group).
They LOVED the wedding, and participated in singing and making it a real African celebration!
Dito presented the Lobola to Fiona's "father", Estevao. Age 6.
We asked if he approved of Dito marrying his daughter, and he said Yes. What a relief!
Fiona and Estevao, waiting for Dito to present the Lobola.
They exchanged rings, said their vows, cut the cake, and everyone had cake and punch to celebrate!
Dito made sure the girls understood this was NOT a real wedding, and they were NOT really married! :-)
"But for Adam no suitable helper was found...
then God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man,
and He brought her to the man...
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother
and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
Parts of Genesis 2:20, 22, 24
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